Happy first official day of summer, happy Monday off . . . Happy Memorial Day.

For most of my life the United States was fortunate to not be engaged in armed conflict. Throughout the 1970’s, 1980’s and most of the 1990’s we were at peace internally and externally. During that time, we became complacent. Memorial Day became the start of summer, a day to cookout, watch baseball and drink beer. We could afford that luxury and we felt we were entitled. No mother had recently experienced the trauma of a son coming home from a foreign land in a casket. No father had to watch his adult daughter learning to walk again with artificial legs. No husband learned of his child’s first steps on a webcam from thousands of miles away.
Many Americans work hard and deserve a relaxing day off with family and friends. That is an important part of Memorial Day. That is the liberty that those who have served in our armed forces, in peace or in combat, have protected. I would like to take a moment to remind you of the other part of Memorial Day.
It is easy to believe that our volunteer soldiers know what they are getting into today. The Iraq and Afghanistan conflicts have been going on for almost ten years now. No Marine, Soldier, Sailor or Airmen has enlisted or re-enlisted not knowing that combat will likely be a part of his or her mission. It is easy to disagree with the political philosophy of the conflicts. Some are morally opposed to any war. Others are opposed to any conflict that does not involve direct self-defense. These opinions should not overshadow the individual stories of great sacrifice that our young men and women make every day.
God has given us the unique ability to empathize-to feel what another is experiencing. In doing so we take our own experiences and apply them to the situation of another. Sometimes, however, what someone else is going through is unimaginable to us because we have no life experience with which to compare. Unless you have served in a hostile zone (I have not), there is no way to imagine the day to day stress of knowing that someone is trying to kill you every second of the day and night. No way of understanding that the next step that you take may set off an improvised explosive device which could kill and maim you and your friends.
The Boston Globe has done a tremendous job of documenting the day-to-day activities of soldiers in Afghanistan http://www.boston.com/bigpicture/2010/05/afghanistan_may_2010.html This Memorial Day I would implore each of you to take a moment to view the pictures, think about what each of these young men and women sacrifice for you and, if you are so inclined, say a prayer that they return safely home soon.
If you have a story of a soldier, sailor, marine or airmen you would like us to post, I welcome you to send it to me at kwd1964@yahoo.com
